Category: Getting to Know You
I would like to thank all of you for the great support that you have given to me since becomming a community leader. As many of you have noticed I am the same person that I was befor becomming a community leader.
However I also find that there are some of you that I thought I new I really don't know. I was amazed to find out that there are individuals on here that proclaim to know all about my sexual habbits and certain attrabutes to life. So I thought I would really stir up the pot and let you know some about me.
As it has been brought to my attention that I am GAY/BI. Well let me put the rumors to rest and let you know that I personally dont allow sociaty or a group of people dictate who or what I am. I personally am NON-SEXUAL. I for the past several years have chosen CELABACY. I have not done this because of religion but rather the fact that I have not found a person to whom will give me the love and respect as I give them. "BUT I HAVE TO SAY THAT I BELIEVE IN TOTAL SATISFACTION SEXUALLY...AND NON OF THIS OH I GOT MY NOB OFF SO I CAN GO TO SLEEP CRAP. So since some of you have made your minds up you go on believing what you want because I find that you are going to be low lifes and believe what you want.
LASTLY if you think that you are that ONE out there that has what it takes to capture this WONDERFUL SOUTHERN GENTLEMAN YOU let me know.
Also I want my friends and foe's to post there feelings and notes of support or opposition to this catagory please.
NOONE WILL GET HATE MAIL BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU MIGHT SAY.
Doug, I support you 100% and I am so glad that we have become such close friends. I do not care if you are gay, bi or anything else. you are a wonderful, caring person and I am blessed to know you. And whoever started those rumors about you, should just go fuck themselves.
Doug, I have told you this privately, and will state publically, that you are my friend, and I respect you. Your sexuality is none of my business unless you make it such. Even if you make it my business i will never judge you for something so shallow. A person is a person before anything else, and you have done nothing to my knowledge to really make anyone behave in this way towards you. Sadly in this world as you know there will always be small minded people who will start such rumours. Please try not to let such things upset you, the most important people around here like and respect you as I do.
frankly doug i don't have time for this kind of crap from these spiteful morons. can you do a good job as a comunity leeder? yes you can. that's all that should be important to these idiots. on a personal note i consider you to be a very good friend and i'll certainly not be holding back on letting people know what i think of anybody pathetic enough to spread this kind of irrelevant horse crap. besides anything else, if they aren't big enough to raise these issues with you personally then they certainly aren't worth worrying about.
Doug, don't worry about the assholes around here man. There are always going to be those who feel it is their personal job in life to go around and see what rumors they can start Such as so and so is cheating on this person or that, who is lesbian and who is gay. There are people who talk to other zoners simply because "female" is specified in their profile and those who are cocksuckers who can not display common courtisy by saying hello when a fellow zoner logs in and displays a greeting. But for the most part, there are people like yourself who are fairly nice and who will go out of their way to help somebody if they need it.
Aww Doug! *big big huggs* I just want you to know that you are a great Community Leader as well as a wonderful person and who ever has anything against you will also have to deal with me! There have been so many times that you have helped me out and just listened when I needed someone who cared. You are fair and do not judge anyone for who or what they are and it is so sad that others can't do the same when it comes to you. I want to thank you for doing such a great job and keep smiling, Doug!
Much Love From:
*sexy*
I'm sorry you are having to put up with crap. I may be out of the loop, but I have never heard any nasty rumors about you. But it wouldn't matter even if I did hear them. I judge people based on how they treat me, and even though we have not had many interactions, you haven't given me any reason to think badly of you.
Doug, whatever your sexual preference or lack of sexual preference may be should not matter, at least here. You do a fine job as community leader, and how your sexual preference was even considered valid material for insults or discussion is beyond my comprehension. What anyone's sexual habits may or may not be is their personal business, and as this is an online site, what's the point in people worrying about other peoples' sexuality? Take care of yourself, and don't let them get you down. They're just people online, who have no lives, after all.
screw them doug, just a bunch of idiots out there! It's to bad people have to start roomers, but I understand ya wanting to set matter strait.
I've never personally heard the rumors, but like what was suggested before, I might just be out of the loop. *smile* And I also have to say I barely know you, but no matter what I hear/or don't, I don't make judgements on those basis. Your personal life is just that; personal!!! And people who pass judgements should, well, as the saying goes, sweep around their own backdoor before they try to sweep around someone elses. But unfortunately there are all to often people who aren't happy in their own lives and have to try and make someone elses life hell to make themselves feel better. These are the type of people who should simply be pittied for their own unhappiness. If you, or anyone else, needs a friend, or just to talk look me up. I'm always willing to listen.
Doug, you the man.
Hey, man you’ve helped me out and made me laugh. All was enjoyed are talks, sucks that there are closed minded people out there but as you can see there are a lot of good people behind you. Never heard anyone say any thing. They are not worthy, stay happy, smiling
Gay? Straight? Half horse? Makes no odds to me, heheheh. You're a great person, I've considered you my friend since the day I first spoke to you. Ignore the Twats. They ain't worth your time.
Doug, I'm sorry you have to go through all this shit with people spreading rumors. I personally hate it when people go spreading rumors about others. Just know that shit that people have been saying isn't true and you've made an excellent comunity leader and you are a great person to talk to.
*party
Doug, you seem like a really cool person. From the few times I've talked to you on the zone, you have a lot of good advice, and...well, you seem like someone we can all look up to.
Doug go on yourself man and give no heed to the bampots who deserve absolutely No time in your mind...
Doug Even though I haven't known you for very long I consider you a friend and enjoy very much the chats that we have. It really doesn't matter what people say about you. Just let them get on with their sad boring little lives as they clearly have nothing better to do than make up things about others.
Don't let these losers get you down Doug. Those of us who are your friends know the trueth and will continue being your friend regardless.
Well a big thanks to all of you who posted and gave me your support. I can let you know I accomplished what I wanted. I found out the sorce and one of them was man enough to appologies. The other is a worthless piece of trash and dosent deserve to breathe the same air I do. but that is another story...
thanks for your support tn-majic
you really deserve it. you go tn!